THE FATHER'S EYES
Bob Richards, the former pole-vault
champion, shares a moving story about a skinny young boy who loved football with
all his heart. Practice after practice, he eagerly gave everything he
had. But being half the size of the other boys, he got absolutely
nowhere. At all the games, this hopeful athlete sat on the bench and hardly
ever played. This teenager
lived alone with his father, and the two of them had a very
special relationship. Even though
the son was always on the bench, his father was always in the stands cheering. He
never missed a game. This young man was still the smallest of the class
when alone with his father, and the two of them had a very special
relationship. Even though the son was always on the bench, his father was
always in the stands cheering. He never missed a game. This young man
was still the smallest of the class when he entered high school. But
his father continued to encourage him but also made it very clear that
he did not have to play football if he didn't want to. But the young man
loved football and decided to hang in there He was determined to
try his best at every practice, and perhaps he'd get to play when he
became a senior. All through high school he never missed a practice
nor a game but remained a bench- warmer all four years. His faithful
father was always in the
stands, always with words of
encouragement for him. When the young man went to college, he decided
to try out for the football team as a "walk-on." Everyone
was sure he could never make the cut, but he did. The coach admitted that he kept
him on the roster because
he always puts his heart and soul to every practice, and at the
same time, provided the other
members with the spirit and hustle they badly needed. The news that he had survived the
cut thrilled him so much that he rushed to the nearest phone and called
his father. His father shared his excitement and was sent season
tickets for all the college games. This persistent young athlete never
missed practice during his four years at college, but he never got to play
in a game. It was the end of his senior football season, and as he
trotted onto the practice
field shortly before the big playoff game, the coach met him
with a telegram. The young man
read the telegram and he became deathly silent. Swallowing hard, he mumbled to the
coach, "My father died this morning. Is it all right if I miss practice
today?" The coach put his
arm gently around his shoulder
and said, "Take
the rest of the week off, son. And don't even plan to come back
to the
game on Saturday." Saturday arrived, and the game was not
going well.
In the third quarter, when the team was ten points behind, a
silent young man quietly slipped
into the empty locker room and
put on his football gear. As he ran onto the sidelines, the coach and his players were
astounded to see their faithful teammate back so soon. "Coach,
please let me play. I've just got to play today," said the young
man. The coach pretended not to hear
him. There was no way he wanted
his worst player in this close playoff game. But the young man persisted, and finally
feeling sorry for the kid, the coach gave in. "All right,"
he said. "You can go in." Before
long, the coach, the players
and everyone in the stands could
not believe their eyes. This little unknown, who had never played before was doing
everything right. The opposing team could not stop him. He ran, he
passed, blocked, and tackled like a star. His team began to triumph.
The score was soon tied. In the closing seconds of the game, this
kid intercepted a pass and ran all the way for the winning touchdown. The fans
broke loose. His teammates
hoisted him onto their shoulders. Such cheering you never
heard. Finally, after the
stands had emptied and the team had showered
and left the locker room, the coach noticed that this
young man was sitting quietly in the corner all alone. The coach came
to him and said, "Kid, I can't believe it. You were fantastic! Tell me
what got into you? How did you do it?" He looked at the
coach, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Well, you knew my dad died, but did
you know that my dad was blind?" The young man swallowed hard and
forced a smile, "Dad came to all my games, but today was the first time he could see
me play, and I wanted to show him I could do it!" Like the
athlete's father, God is always there cheering for us. He's always
reminding us to go on. He's even offering us His hand for He knows what
is best, and is willing to give us what we need and not simply what we
want. God has never missed a single game.
What a joy to know that life is
meaningful if lived for the Highest. Live for HIM for He's watching us in the game of
life!
RIGHT NOW:
* Somebody is very
proud of you.
* Somebody is
thinking of you.
* Somebody is caring
about you.
* Somebody misses
you.
* Somebody wants to
talk to you.
* Somebody wants to
be with you.
* Somebody hopes you
aren't in trouble.
* Somebody is
thankful for the support you have provided.
* Somebody wants to
hold your hand.
* Somebody hopes
everything turns out all right.
* Somebody wants you
to be happy.
* Somebody wants you
to find him/her.
* Somebody is
celebrating your successes.
* Somebody wants to
give you a gift.
* Somebody thinks
that you ARE a gift.
* Somebody hopes
you're not too cold or too hot.
* Somebody wants to
hug you.
* Somebody loves you.
* Somebody admires
your strength.
* Somebody is
thinking of you and smiling.
* Somebody wants to
be your shoulder to cry on.
* Somebody wants to
protect you.
* Somebody would do
anything for you.
* Somebody wants to
be forgiven.
* Somebody is
grateful for your forgiveness.
* Somebody wants to
laugh with you.
* Somebody remembers
you and wishes that you were there.
* Somebody is
praising God for you.
* Somebody needs to
know that your love is unconditional.
* Somebody values
your advice.
* Somebody wants to
tell you how much they care.
* Somebody wants to
share their dreams with you.
* Somebody wants to
hold you in their arms.
* Somebody wants you
to hold them in your arms.
* Somebody treasures
your spirit.
* Somebody wishes
they could STOP time because of you.
* Somebody praises
God for your friendship and love.
* Somebody can't wait
to see you.
* Somebody loves you
for who you are.
* Somebody loves the
way you make them feel.
* Somebody wants to
be with you.
* Somebody wants you
to know they are there for you.
* Somebody's glad
that you're his/her friend.
* Somebody wants to
be your friend.
* Somebody stayed up
all night thinking about you.
* Somebody is wishing
that you noticed him/her.
* Somebody wants to
get to know you better.
* Somebody wants to
be near you.
* Somebody misses
your advice/guidance.
* Somebody has faith
in you.
* Somebody trusts
you.
* Somebody needs your
support.
* Somebody needs you
to have faith in them.
* Somebody needs you
to let them be your friend.
* Somebody hears a
song that reminds them of you.